Part 2 - Love

This will be just some thing that i miss out from the previous post. Well, this and the previous post is just some of my opinion which if did come out to be someone's situation or etc, flauken.blogspot.com would like to apologize to the people that felt hurt or insulted by my previous post.

Let just start.

What is LOVE?!


Love as define by oxford dictionary:

–noun

1.	a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person.

2.	a feeling of warm personal attachment or deep affection, as for a parent, child, or friend.

3.	sexual passion or desire.

4.	a person toward whom love is felt; beloved person; sweetheart.

5.	(used in direct address as a term of endearment, affection, or the like): Would you like to see a movie, love?

6.	a love affair; an intensely amorous incident; amour.

7.	sexual intercourse; copulation.

8.	(initial capital letter) a personification of sexual affection, as Eros or Cupid.

9.	affectionate concern for the well-being of others: the love of one's neighbor.

10.	strong predilection, enthusiasm, or liking for anything: her love of books.

11.	the object or thing so liked: The theater was her great love.

12.	the benevolent affection of God for His creatures, or the reverent affection due from them to God.

13.	Chiefly Tennis. a score of zero; nothing.

14.	a word formerly used in communications to represent the letter L.

–verb (used with object)

15.	to have love or affection for: All her pupils love her.

16.	to have a profoundly tender, passionate affection for (another person).

17.	to have a strong liking for; take great pleasure in: to love music.

18.	to need or require; benefit greatly from: Plants love sunlight.

19.	to embrace and kiss (someone), as a lover.

20.	to have sexual intercourse with.

source from dictionary.com

it's clearly define there from dictionary.com that love is something about feelings toward the person that you care and the person that u think it might be the one that you would rest the life with.

But there is something that i don't get it at all. If a love word or if you would just say "I LOVE YOU" for everynight to ur partner, would the partner feel cheated or would she care if you really love her as it would be like this in the heart." =.=", every night you say u love me?!"

If for the person that would be saying this everyday before your partner sleep, i tell u what, if it's for me, i would just hang up if people that i love want me to say "I LOVE YOU" every night. i would just say like this.. " If the words of mine can prove my love, then you must be something wrong. You're just being happy for my words, not my heart" come on, love are to be proven by the act, by the care that the guy/girl showers to you, by the soft touch that he/she gave you, by the feeling that he/she gave you, not by the word.

One more thing that been something i really wanna voice out, the word " I LOVE YOU FOREVER SWEETHEART ", FUCK, there are nothing in this world would be yours' forever, nothing that goes to heaven with you, what the hell are those people telling FOREVER in addition that the girls heart melts and " oh romeo, I WILL LET YOU LOVE ME ETERNITY " this is such a fucking bullshit, if i were to hear this from a person i love, i would ask back, you can be with me maybe tomolo, but it doesn't mean that you would be with me for the day after tomolo. The word are just to make you smile, sweet mouth people can easily get a girl, but not a person that he love, a person that he would just play n dump!. Sometimes, action is more valuable than the word. Prove to your partner, not by saying sweet word. In my life, there is nothing FOREVER and ETERNITY, no such thing, don't lie to yourself to make you happy. Yeah. I read someone blog recently. She wrote there, " why not the guys suffer but always do the girls suffer on the end of a relationship? " (correct me if i write wrong), let me tell you what, in the end of a relationship, there are for sure either party will get hurt, it's either the guy or the gurl, but thing of this, what i can say, we guys do suffer a lot, i mean A LOT.

If you do love the person, and if the person you love choose not to be with you, think about it, there are no point for you to ask/beg him/her to return to you, no point. Forcing each other for the sake of your heart, will not make the relationship works, in the end, he/she will hate you more than everybody do. Y hate?! If a person like/ love you, he/she will never leave you, never if you are in other country or you are in space, he/she will continue to shower love to you, but if the person choose to leave you, then move on with your life, there are no point for you to be sad for that someone that been hurting you in return.

A lot of people told me that they won't love anyone anymore. BUT this is just BULLSHIT!, i did even told a lot of people that i would prefer to be single, but think of it, you was just lying around just because you can't accept the fact that he/she don't love you anymore. To prevent a hurt, think outside the box. It helps a lot. He/she don't love you anymore, break up with you and you choose to take your life hoping that he/she can get back to you? ok, this is some fucking shit that dumb ass people would do, real fucker will think of their self other then thinking out of the box. Ask yourself, why do he/she leave you in the 1st place?! If he/she love you now, would he/she hurt you? no, he/she won't hurt you. If a person that you love hurt you, it'll just leave a scar in the heart, nothing more than that. I'm a person which been hurt, it took a lot of time for me to really wake up or climb out of that hole.

I might not have a lot of experience in LOVE. If you do love him/her, cherish him/her, don't wait until it's too late for anything, NEVER regret for every single decision that you make, it would hurt you more. I tell you, in this world if you really love someone, if he/she choose to take another road, let her/him go, you can still always stay alive.. always... It's so fucking hard to really understand someone you love, you need time to understand them, but when u get to know them, and he/she is not the type you are looking for, make a move, end the relationship.

" If you love someone, shower her with the love and care they need, prove to them rather then being saying " I LOVE YOU" every night, understand your partner", if he/she not your choice, make the move rather then in the end either one will get hurt.

what the hell is wrong with those people being sad with someone that don't deserve to be with them? swt. i really think what i should have said is said. This post might be offensive. i'm sorry if it hurt you.

"I love you more than any word can say ... I love you more than every action I take ... I'll be right here loving you till the end."

fine.. i think i crap too much. i ain't down, it just explode from my heart. Read it only. Don't keep in heart!


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